BEST OF YOU!

BEST OF YOU!- Who Am I?

 Good evening dear, this is me Queen Cwen ready to do my thing here on this platform – Being the best of me and also spreading this message as a virus for you to be the best of You. To be the best of you means to be what you want to be in life; that which is your ultimate desire. The basic thing to know to be the best of you is:

•  who you are 
• what your purpose in life is 
• Advancing to the next level

 These are important guides to help you stay focused in a life full of challenges and struggles that could weigh you down and keep you off track of your passion or vision. When you know who you are, where you are coming from, and where you want to be then you start to appreciate and value you!

 Who am I? 

 I have found out (based on personal experience which I believe would resonance with you) that to know yourself first you have to know

1.  why you must be happy – always 
2. what makes you truly happy, 
3. what inspires you or fulfils your mental yearnings 
4. what brings illumination to your spirit 
5. why you act the way you do

 I believe many more could be added to the list above but being aware of these few points would help you achieve self awareness and appreciation which is key in living a fulfilled and happy life; because now you have the key and power to your own happiness. Nobody except you can take away your happiness. For example, I know that reaching out to people, being grateful and being creative gives me so much pleasure and happiness, so I ALWAYS find myself doing creative things even if it is a mere thought of how beautiful my surroundings are, and I consciously or subconsciously begin to work my art on those thoughts, I always find myself happy doing that no matter what is going on around me because I believe am doing what I was born for- to enjoy, explore and recreate life!

 Now back to you. To find out more about you. write down answers to the following questions and I believe you would have a clear picture of who you are and what makes you happy.

1.  What do I want to do for myself that can make me happy always and why? 
2. Do I have a healthy relationship with family and friends? 
3. what do I want to do for my family and friends that can make me happy always and why? 
4. Do I love myself and why? 
5. Is my love for myself dependent on any persons perception of me? Please if yes, take a deep breath and say to yourself “I Love Me!!!”, you could even make it a part of your morning exercise chanting “I Love Me!!!” while exercising, you can’t be the best until you begin to love yourself. 
6. why must I be happy? – Your answers to the questions above would help you answer this question.
7. Am I hurting and why? 
8. Do I forgive easily? If no, you can learn to forgive by pretending you are a child again, mentally assume you got nothing in the world to care about, because you truly need to don’t careless of whatever it is. Worry is the root of an unforgiving spirit.

 When you know who you truly are and what you want to achieve then -Viola! – you have a reason to be happy because you can only be happy for yourself! Remember happy thoughts and happy scenarios should always surround you, arm yourself with them always! Well that’s my version, would love to hear what makes you happy and what you do to always remain happy on my twitter handle @Cwensworld or Facebook account: Cwen Eleonu. Adios!